Ok, I will call this certain person 'Matt'.
Imagine having organised to go on a friendly date with a friend. Ok. You text this friend in the week to confirm you are definitely doing something that Friday. You start to get quite excited by the prospect on going on said date. No concrete plans are made as of yet but Matt and you are very good friends and you know you will have fun.
Friday comes.
You texted Matt first in the week to double check the plans, and you don't want to appear needy (you're British) and consequently, you don't text him about the said plan.
Friday night comes and goes.
You discover that no, Matt didn't just not go.
No, Matt didn't go with someone else.
No, Matt didn't end up going somewhere with a girl he was interested in and consequently gave up a friend date for a hotty.
No, Matt didn't just forget.
No, none of the above.
Matt went by himself.
He would rather go by himself than actually take you to go and see this fun thing with him.

So basically, I have seen myself on a new scale when it comes to going out for a fun outing.

When it comes to a trip with you:-
Boys will think: -
1. I want to go out with a hot girl I am interested in
2. I want to go out with an interesting girl.
3. I want to go out with a girl a bit interested in me.
4. I want to go with a mate.
5. I don't want to go.
6. I want to go by myself.
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etc.
etc.
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600,000,000: I want to go with Melissa.


Joy.