Dreams
Posted on Tuesday, 21 August 2012
My Dad said something very
disturbing recently. It stuck with me.
We were sitting around our dinner
table, in the sunny Barbados sunshine and were discussing normal day-to-day
topics. My sister has just received her fantastic AS results (but as common in
the Morgan household, she doesn’t think they are good enough), and I was
discussing how one of my favourite YouTubers had recently posted a video,
bringing up the very true and unfortunate fact that as my peers and I graduate
we inevitably face doom. The job market is so poor that we all face a lengthy
period of unemployment. We can work for free, as many of us will end up doing,
but we have been doing that for a very long time. How much longer will we have
to work for free before we can start climbing the career ladder? Many of my
friends (me included) are working right now for free. We do bits and bobs,
internships and placements, in the hope that one day we will be hired, or our
work experience will be viewed by another employee as pure genius and we will
be scooped up and placed in a job of our dreams. Despite what the newspapers
say and will continue to claim, I know my generation are one of the most hard
working and determined group of people that this planet has ever had the
fortune to hold. I don’t want to sound big headed but we work our arses off
whilst continually facing problems and debris left behind by the past
generations. We are very close to
graduating and facing one of the toughest economies, closed job market and to
top it all of we are continually being ridiculed and ‘slagged off’. The elderly
examiners love to claim that we are only gaining better grades because the
exams are easier, the newspapers love to plaster their front pages with
teenagers falling out of clubs and lecturers love to patronisingly tell us that
we’ve ‘got it easy’. Anyway, I’m going off topic. What my Dad said to me was
“Well Melissa, you could be a
chartered account.”
This might not seem like a
shocking statement to be heard but to me, it certainly was. I am a History and
English student. I didn’t even study Maths at A-level. Why on earth would I
want to be an account?
“Well it is an option, you have to
stop dreaming. Do you think I wanted to be a Risk Analyst at a Bank? No. You
have to be realistic.”
I almost choked. No. That might
not have been my Dad’s dream but he studied MATHS. Therefore, going into
banking isn’t such a big leap. I am a Humanities student. To suddenly leap into
the world of accountancy is a rather big change. If anything, I think it is a
bit sad. The idea that I’ve worked four years for a degree, only to continue
studying for two years in something completely different just because I know at
the end of it I’ll have a job with a decent wage fills me with a deep sadness.
I don’t blame anyone for doing it (and trust me, quite a lot of my friends have
done degrees at University in things completely opposite to accountancy to
suddenly decided upon graduation that that is the career they will now pursue)
but for me, I will feel like it is giving up. I will be giving up on my dreams.
To be honest, I am happy to work my arse for free for a couple more years as
long as it means at the end of it I get to follow my dream.
So for now Dad, no, I will not be
looking up accountancy courses online. I know it will put your mind at rest if
I do go into accountancy as that job market is pretty strong but I am a
dreamer. And to be honest I am quite happy that way for the time being. I don’t
know if you realised it yet Dad but those simple words have actually made me
more determined than ever to follow my dreams to doing what I want to do.
Sorry, I don’t think I’ll be following you.
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